Story by: Melissa Wright on June 3, 2019
I remember very clearly the day that my son Cooper was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes. I was sitting with my husband and Cooper in the emergency department waiting to see the endocrinologist. As we were waiting, the nurse checked his one-hour blood sugar from his glucose test, read me that result plus what his A1C level was (an A1C test is a blood test that reflects your average blood sugar levels over the past three months) and I knew what that meant. I am a nurse myself, but nothing could have prepared me for the overwhelming feeling of doom that came next. I immediately starting bawling.
Not long after, Kupper Wintergerst, M.D., director of the Wendy Novak Diabetes Center and division chief of pediatric endocrinology for the University of Louisville School of Medicine, confirmed what I already knew: Cooper had Type 1 diabetes.
I had to keep myself together because I needed to have a focused mind to prepare myself for the education that was about to occur. My son’s life depended on me knowing what to do. I cried many times at the hospital, making sure that Cooper didn’t see me. I needed to make sure that he knew that he did nothing wrong to cause this disease.
My head ached from all of the new information being poured into it — counting carbohydrates, calculating insulin doses, persuading Cooper to have his finger poked and to get an injection. My shoulders felt so very heavy, and there was a huge knot in my stomach. Life as we knew it was over.
The first few days and weeks at home weren’t much different. I read every food label we had in our pantry and fridge. I gathered up all of the measuring cups and measuring spoons and a calculator to have handy. I constantly kept an eye on Cooper to see if I noticed any signs of high or low blood sugar.
This mindset consumed my every thought of every day. Just when I would stop thinking about it for a moment, someone would call or ask about how things were going, or they would have questions. Most of the time I’d answer those questions, but sometimes I just didn’t have the energy. I rarely would leave Cooper alone for the fear of what could happen. Frustration overwhelmed me. If I was doing everything right then why was his blood sugar not OK?
Each week that passed got a little bit easier and more routine — remembering how many carbs were in a peanut butter and jelly sandwich without actually having to calculate it. We started a list of foods that Cooper frequently ate with the portion and carb count next to it. I learned how to eyeball portions instead of constantly measuring it out.
Fear had lessened, but I never put my guard down. I was coming to terms with the fact that Type 1 diabetes is not black or white. Cooper could eat and play today and his sugar be great, and tomorrow he could eat and play the exact way he did the day before, and his sugar would not be so great. Counting carbs, checking blood sugar and administering insulin are the easy part. The hard part is realizing that hormones, activity, emotions, illness, sweat, cold — all have effects on blood sugar. That is the most frustrating part for me and still is to this day, but I’ve come to terms with that fact and have realized that I can only control so much. Even when I’m told I’m doing everything right, it still doesn’t feel like it sometimes.
It’s been two years since Cooper’s diagnosis. Having the Dexcom continuous glucose monitoring (CGM) system and Omnipod insulin pump have been huge game changers. More freedom, less worry. Diabetes doesn’t consume our home anymore. It’s just part of our lives now. What keeps me going every single day is knowing that “it could always be worse” and “hopefully with him being diagnosed at age 4, he will not remember life before diabetes and he will know no difference.”
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If your child has just been diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes, I know how you’re feeling. Here are five things to keep in mind:
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