What to Expect During This Visit

Your doctor and/or nurse will probably:

1. Check your child's weight and height, calculate body mass index (BMI), and plot the measurements on growth charts.

2. Give a screening (test) that helps with the early identification of developmental delays.

3. Ask questions, address concerns, and offer guidance about how your child is:

Eating. Don't be surprised if your toddler skips meals occasionally or loves something one day and won't touch it the next. Schedule three meals and two or three nutritious snacks a day. You're in charge of the menu, but let your child be in charge of how much of it he or she eats.

Peeing and pooping. Most toddlers are ready to begin potty training when they're between 2 and 3 years old. Signs that your child is ready to start potty training include:

  • showing interest in toilet (watching parent or sibling in the bathroom, sitting on potty chair)
  • staying dry for longer periods
  • pulling pants down and up with assistance
  • connecting feeling of having to go with peeing and pooping
  • communicating that diaper is wet or dirty

Sleeping. Your child needs about 11 to 14 hours of sleep. This might still include one afternoon nap.

Developing. By 30 months, it's common for many toddlers to:

  • speak using pronouns (I, me, you)
  • identify body parts
  • wash and dry hands
  • pull pants up with assistance
  • jump in place
  • throw a ball, overhand
  • match shapes and colors
  • begin to play with other children

4. Do a physical exam with your child undressed while you are present. This will include an eye exam, listening to the heart and lungs, and paying attention to your toddler's coordination, use of language, and social skills.

5. Update immunizations. Immunizations can protect kids from serious childhood illnesses, so it's important that your child get them on time. Immunization schedules can vary from office to office, so talk to your doctor about what to expect.

Looking Ahead

Here are some things to keep in mind until your child's next checkup at 3 years:


  1. Eat meals together as a family whenever possible.
  2. Serve low-fat or nonfat milk or a fortified milk alternative, like soy or almond milk. Offer other low-fat and nonfat dairy products.
  3. Limit juice to no more than 4 ounces (120 ml) a day. Avoid high-sugar and high-fat foods and drinks.


  1. Have a safe play area and allow plenty of time for exploring, make-believe, and active play.
  2. Read to your child daily to encourage language development and help prepare him or her for preschool.
  3. Repeat back to your child what he or she says. This shows that you understood what was said and helps your child learn the right words.
  4. Consider enrolling your child in a preschool program or arranging play dates to help build social skills.
  5. Limit screen time (TV, computers, tablets, and smartphones) to no more than 1 to 2 hours a day of quality children's programming. Keep TVs and other screens out of your child's bedroom.

Routine Care & Safety

  1. Children may brush their teeth with a soft toothbrush and a small amount of toothpaste (no more than the size of a pea). Let your child brush his or her teeth with your guidance. Go over any areas that may have been missed. If you haven't already, schedule a dentist visit.
  2. Be positive about potty training. Praise your child's efforts and don't force your child to use the potty or punish your child for accidents.
  3. Set reasonable and consistent rules. Use praise to encourage good behavior and calmly redirect unwanted behavior.
  4. Give your child a sense of independence by giving two choices between two acceptable options. More than two can be overwhelming.
  5. Tantrums, while less frequent now, tend to be worse when kids are tired or hungry. Try to head off tantrums before they happen — find a distraction or remove your child from frustrating situations.
  6. Don't spank. Children don't make the connection between spanking and the behavior you're trying to correct. You can use a brief time-out to discipline your toddler.
  7. Most toddlers are ready to move from a crib to a regular bed with safety rails when they're between 2 and 3 years old. Follow a regular bedtime routine that will help your child settle into a good night's sleep.
  8. Watch your toddler closely when playing outside and on playground equipment. Make sure your child wears a helmet when riding a bike or trike.
  9. Apply sunscreen of SPF 30 or higher at least 15 minutes before your child goes outside to play and reapply about every 2 hours.
  10. Protect your child from secondhand smoke, which increases the risk of heart and lung disease. Secondhand vapor from e-cigarettes is also harmful.
  11. Keep your child in a rear-facing car seat until he or she reaches the highest weight or height limit allowed by the seat's manufacturer. Previous advice was to turn kids around by age 2. Now, safety experts say to do this based on a child's size, not age. So, small children can stay rear-facing until age 3 or 4.
  12. To prevent drowning, don't leave your child alone in the bathtub or in a pool, no matter how shallow the water.
  13. Protect your child from gun injuries by not keeping a gun in the home. If you do have a gun, keep it unloaded and locked away. Ammunition should be locked up separately. Make sure kids cannot access the keys.

These checkup sheets are consistent with the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP)/Bright Futures guidelines.

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